Getting a divorce in New York involves several steps. Here’s a general guide to help you understand the process:

1. Meet Residency Requirements: To file for divorce in New York, you or your spouse must meet the residency requirements. Either you or your spouse must have lived in New York continuously for at least two years before filing for divorce, or one of you must have lived in New York continuously for at least one year and meet certain other requirements.

2. Grounds for Divorce: New York allows for both fault-based and no-fault grounds for divorce. No-fault divorce is based on the irretrievable breakdown of the marriage for a period of at least six months. Fault-based grounds include cruel and inhuman treatment, abandonment, imprisonment, and adultery.

3. File a Divorce Petition: To start the divorce process, you (the plaintiff) must file a Summons with Notice or a Summons and Complaint in the Supreme Court in the county where either you or your spouse lives.

4. Serve Your Spouse: After filing the petition, you must serve your spouse with the divorce papers. This can be done by personal service, by a process server, or by mail with an acknowledgment of receipt.

5. Response from Your Spouse: Your spouse (the defendant) has a certain amount of time to respond to the divorce petition. If they fail to respond, you may be able to proceed with the divorce by default.

6. Negotiate a Settlement: Many divorces in New York are settled out of court through negotiation between the spouses and their attorneys. If you and your spouse can agree on issues such as division of property, child custody, and support, you can avoid a trial.

7. Court Proceedings: If you and your spouse cannot reach a settlement, the case will go to trial, where a judge will make decisions on the unresolved issues.

8. Finalize the Divorce: Once all issues are resolved, either through settlement or trial, a Judgment of Divorce will be issued, and your divorce will be final.

9. Post-Divorce Matters: After the divorce is finalized, you may need to take additional steps, such as changing your name or updating your estate plan, to fully complete the process.

Conclusion: Getting a divorce in New York can be a complex and emotional process. It’s important to understand your rights and obligations under the law and to seek the advice of an experienced attorney to guide you through the process.